Tuesday, July 3, 2007

LOVE IS CINTA (BUT NOT THE MOVIE)

After 2 days of sad entry, today I decided to touch on one interesting topic. Love. Allow me to say something about love. To me love is the next best to miracle. Love has no limit, no boundary. Love make you do the unbelievable, sometimes, even the imposible. True love will not make you any poorer but will at least enrich you in many ways.
But one thing for sure, love make me happy. A good example, I realised my love for few of my female collegues in the office grow stronger. I feel I am responsible to make them happy, laugh and even share their problem. Eventhough I can't solve it but by listening I believe it would help. Ahah!, don't get me wrong. It is not that kind of love you are thinking about. Stop straying. I love them just like my little sister. I only have 2 little sister in my family, so I think it is no harm to have few more, right?
I also have 2 caring neighbours and lovely friends (married with family as well as single, both male and female) which I love and care for. I regards their childrens like my own nephew and nieces. I regards their parents like my own too. And yet, I never feel I have given enough love. I still have abundance of it.
As I grow older, I have soft spot for animals, any animal. I have 5 cats at home. At the same time, I still take care of about 10 stray cats outside my door step. At my balcony, I always have rice and 1 loaf of bread which I cut into pieces to feed "burung pipit (about 30 ekor), 2 pairs of very fat burung merpati and one type of medium size black bird with a very loud voice (not crow) which I dont what species (about 20 ekor). I am happy to see them when they stop by my balcony to have breakfast, lunch and dinner before the fly back to their home. They always pay me by singing and chirping happily. After maghrib, I will cut at least 15 banana and place it at the same balcony for the "musang" family (5 ekor). Over the time, they become more friendly to me. They will come out from the roof and observing me preparing their meal before they dine. Cute. It is tedious but I am happy. When I am away from home, I make sure I assigned my friend to feed all my pet (in and outside the house). It is my responsibility. They are animal but they still have life. Some of my friend and neighbour says I am "crazy". I responded happily by saying it is love...
Now, I would like to post some questions. How much will you do for love? How far will you go? To what extend are you willing to sacrifice? How much are you willing to give and then, how much do you want to take? If you are married, would you love your spouse more than you love your own children? My question about love will go on and on and on..

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

Sometime LOVE sucks! Some people suffer because of love.

Anonymous said...

To me love doesnt suck. If anything screws up, the aftermath is just consequences of the choices you made sometimes. But remember, life too, is about moving on and opening new chapters.

Abang, talking about being an animal lover .. hehe. Well, i am the opposite. I am scared shit of ALL of em. I let a cat die in a pond behind my house once, just because I was too chicken to fish it out of the water after he fell from the little bridge across the pond. So.. he just went "blub, blub, blub.." while I just, well, watched. Hopefully he is resting in peace in cat's heaven now. sigh.

Kazardijam said...

To Anonymous - Poor soul. I can't help it if you find love suck and suffer because of love. The trick is, give with no expectation. Hope you will one day find love sweet.

To Donna - Wise as usual. But if one day a group of cat catch and try to drown you in some deserted lake, you may count on me to save you or at leave to recover your body for a proper burial. Kah kah kah

Anonymous said...

isn't your house is like a zoo.

Anonymous said...

a zoo?? looks like I will delay my trip to abang razak's house even more. heheh ..love you bang!

Anonymous said...

Not to worry Miss Dona, it just a petting zoo. At nite better, coz you will see so many creatures start popping out haha!

Anonymous said...

abang razak = ace ventura

Kazardijam said...

KK - I am "snow white" a male version. I am looking for 7 dwarfs. You may collect the application form from Tsunami, my part time maid.
Dona - All the animal waiting for your appearance. They can't wait forever.
Kiff - don't let the cat out of the bag. Lets give Dona some surprises...

Anonymous said...

There is no such thing as real love in real life.Its only a fantasies and fairy tales and maybe dreams. But when your in reality, you need to get real!

But, to me, instead of falling in love, i rather fall into chocholate cake....

Strawberry sweet on you,
aziah

Kazardijam said...

You better go easy with your chocolate cake or I will have to re-install your sliding door!

Anonymous said...

To me love is crazy. But sometimes love is sweet (can make people go "karan" too ! kah..kah..kah). Whatever it is, you really have a good heart for being generous to all those animals. I love animals too..it just that I don't have time..

Dona, yeah I still remember her pulling her feet up when we had lunch at Keramat (Ikan Bakar stall) because of stray cat resting under the table. So abang you have to start calling all the cats to your house to greet Dona. I can imagine she will jumping here and there (kah..kah..kah)

Kazardijam said...

Yes, I understand you have no time for any other thing except karan mengaran!

Anonymous said...

susah jadi orang lawa ni. Suma orang serba jeles ngan aku. siap nak antar kucing!

tapi i sayang you guys gak!!

Kazardijam said...

Memang org2 brickfield suma tahu u cantek dgn hanya menyentuh u dgn tongkat mereka....